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When I was five years old, I got the chicken pox virus, and I got it BAD. Sores covered my entire body and face and I would cry myself to sleep at night in discomfort. My mom gave me oatmeal baths and lots of love and sympathy. Debt is like chicken pox. Everyone gets it, especially in America. My first semester of college, I drank the punch like everyone else, and signed on the dotted line for my first student loan. I contracted the virus of buying things I could not afford under the pretense that student loan debt is “good debt.” Once I started borrowing money, it was hard to stop, and seven years later I found myself in a $30,000 hole with a useless liberal arts degree. So, what did I decide to do? I took charge of my financial future, of course! I deferred paying back my loans by enrolling in a liberal arts Masters program racking up another $20,000! Like most people reading this article, I was raised by industrious, hard working parents who believed in paying cash, and not buying what you couldn’t afford. I remember the sinking feeling I got in the pit of my stomach every time I borrowed more money. I justified it with, “Everyone is doing it. This is my future. I am already so far in debt what does it matter if I get more? Maybe I could marry someone rich!” Some misinformed peers even suggested I could declare bankruptcy. When I first started my career in social work, I was devastated to learn that my salary bordered the poverty line. I considered returning to tend bar to pay the bills. I recall the day I pulled up a loan repayment calculator online and threw up in my mouth when I discovered I would make my last loan payment at the age of 62! Most students are leaving college, many without even graduating, with an average of $37,172 in student loan debt (Forbes, 2016). Post graduation, many young adults are pressured into more debt: “Honey, isn’t it time you settled down and bought a house?” Five years into my poverty level career I got mad: mad at society for selling me a college pipe dream, mad at my parents and older brother for not steering me toward a junior college instead of an out of state private university, and mad at myself for not listening to my own conscience. I determined I was going to get out of debt, and I was going to do it, RIGHT NOW! This was my plan.
I hung a poster board in my office with a big red thermometer drawn on it, and every month I would white-out the debt I paid. I watched it go down over one year to 40k, 35k, 30k, 20k, 7k. I remember the last student loan payment I made and how much it impacted me. I checked my bank account and saw almost 10k had been deposited from the previous month’s sales. I logged into my familiar student loan page, and clicked ‘pay now’ and typed in $7,231.15, paused, took a deep breath, and clicked ‘send.’ I leaned back into my black pleather office chair, took another deep breath, and tears welled in my eyes. In my mind I shouted “I can’t believe it, I just beat the system by thirty years!” I immediately reached for the phone, “I need to call someone and celebrate my incredible victory!” Then I realized I didn’t know a single person who was debt free. Tired, very tired, and my chest shaking with deep, overwhelming gratitude, I left early and went home, very proud of myself. Chicken pox is characterized by severe itchiness, unsightly rash, and fever, and in some cases, it can actually kill you. According to the National Health Service, chickenpox has no cure and almost every person will be attacked by it at some point in their life. Surprisingly, it is possible to contract the virus more than once, but this is extremely rare; most people who have had chickenpox won't get it again because they're immune to it for life. Let’s do this with debt! Sending hope your way, April Rogers Peterson Would you like to understand your options in greater detail? Trusted Home Offer has been helping families with these situations for decades. We are a family run business and we are here to help to bring clarity. If we aren’t your best resource, we will point you in a better direction. We don’t charge any upfront fees. Reach out to Trusted Home Offer at 208-919-9579 or by email at [email protected]. Find us online at thoffers.com.
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